How to let my child know that NO means NO?

1. Be firm about it. This should reflect in the tone of your voice, your facial expression etc so that they know you are serious about this. Explain once or at most twice to them. Do not prolong rationalisation. You can tell them firmly that you will not be discussing the issue further.

2. For older children, you may need to set rules and the consequence for not following them, upfront. Eg. If they want to use electronic device longer than the time limit you have set for them, you will confiscate it for the next day. Have them acknowledge the consequence. Follow through with the rules you have set. For younger children, you may need to carry them away from the situation (eg if they want a Toy, if they want to do something dangerous etc).

3. Feel free to empathise with them. There is no need to get angry. For younger children you can comfort them through the crying. For an older child you can suggest other alternatives that they might one to do. Eg. Offer to do something else they like.

4. Be consistent. Once they understand the limits are non-negotiable you will have an easier time in the longer run.